The Pastor's Pen

Consider One Another


“And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near” (Hebrews 10:24–25).

These words were written during a time of great upheaval. Jewish Christians were facing increasing hostility from the surrounding culture. Further, within a couple of years, Jerusalem would become the centre of Israel’s most devastating war. If ever there was a time when people might be tempted to consider themselves, even to the point of isolating themselves, perhaps this would be it. But our writer counter intuitively admonishes them to consider others, and to do so together.

The word translated “consider” means “to observe fully,” or to “fix one’s eyes or mind upon” something. It is not an exhortation to merely give a passing glance to one another; rather, it is a strong admonition to pay careful attention to one another, to look out for one another. It is an exhortation to take responsibility for the spiritual welfare of each other. This is clear from what follows: “in order to stir up love and good works.” That is, we are to so closely observe one another that we notice when love lags and good works languish. Our concern is to translate into effort to encourage one another in the love of God and to motivate them to keep on keeping on. “Provoking to perseverance” is a good way to put it. But again, this requires that we give thought to each other. We are to set our minds on practically caring for each other.

Paul had something similar in mind when he wrote to the Philippians, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves”(2:3). To “count” is to think of another—to think, “What is best for her?”

Although we don’t face increasing hostility from our surrounding culture, summer here in the UAE can be a trying and depressing time. This is the season, when we have to say our goodbyes to friends who are moving back oversees, which we have spent several years getting to know and love. It is never easy saying goodbye to brothers and sister in Christ, who have become closer than many of our blood relatives. Some get to go away on holiday and spend quality time with family and friends, while others are left behind in the blistering heat.

This is a season, we need to ‘consider each other’, encourage and be encouraged!  

Great encouragement can arise from a simple message: “I just wanted you to know that you have been on my heart lately.” To be considered by another is to be encouraged that you matter. And that matters; it matters a lot.

In each of these cases, our considering one another is practically carried out by assembling with one another. The writer was not just concerned with the congregation gathering on Sunday. No, he was concerned that God’s beleaguered people gather whenever and wherever they could. 

Many people, many Christians included, live under the burden that, in the big scheme of things, they do not matter. Many feel that they are not important to others and that their contributions are meaningless. Some live under the emotional tyranny of thinking that no one considers their hurts. On a less serious level, albeit an important one, many feel that they are always left out, that no one considers them when making up their guest list. Yes, many Christians have the impression that, at the end of the day, no one considers them. We are commanded to correct this. We are commanded to be considerate. Consideration goes a long way towards ministering the love of Christ. Let me make some specific practical suggestions.

Hospitality. As Christians, we are to open our lives and our homes, not only to those with whom we have the most in common, but to those who might be considered “strangers.” “Hospitable” in the New Testament means “a lover of strangers.” This is an expectation for every Christian (1 Peter 4:9), and a requirement for those serving as elders (1 Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:8). To whom do we open our homes? Only those with whom we feel the most comfortable? Yet, if we consider one another, we will not forsake assembling with a wider circle of people. To use an important word, we will be more inclusive with our invitations. When planning that Friday lunch, consider those who are different demographically from you. If you are single, consider those who are married, and vice-versa. If you are from one nationality, consider a person from a different nationality. If you are young, consider those who are not so young. If you are boring, consider someone who is not boring!

While many of our Home groups taking a break, use this time to go and have coffee with someone you don’t know very well, or invite some new folks over for a games evening or go pray with a brother or sister you never had the time to before. Why not read an encouraging Christian book together with a few friends?

The writer of Hebrews adds that as believers we are to encourage each other in the Lord, “to stir up one another to love and good works”. During this summer season here in Abu Dhabi, we can be tempted to isolate ourselves. The heat can be a very reasonable excuse. But let’s not! Let us rather be intentional and active in gathering together, as we are commanded to do.

God’s commandments are not designed to make us gloomy or bored or sad. They are meant to do the opposite. So be encouraged and be involved in the ministry of encouraging this summer season, so that God will get the glory and we, His people will receive the joy as we grow together in both love and in good works!

 May this be the best summer ever!